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In high school, Jeff knew he needed help with his dating life as he was crippled with fear whenever he wanted to talk to a girl he found attractive. Too afraid to ask a girl out and face the humiliation of rejection due to a low self-esteem and zero experience, he asked his mother for advice.

His mother was the only woman at the time who truly loved him, and she gave him a typical Asian mother answer of telling him to solely focus on his studies, get into a good university, and get a high-paying job then the women will come to him. Jeff didn’t want to wait over 10 years to finally start dating and he noticed all his non-Asian friends who had girlfriends didn’t even have good grades and weren’t rich.

Realizing his mother didn’t have the answers, he started his journey of self improvement by reading books about pickup and dating in 2004.

After watching the American Pie movie series and wishing he could be like the main characters, at age of 14, he first read “Double Your Dating” by David DeAngelo. He tried implementing what he learned from David DeAngelo in high school but didn’t get any positive results from it. At the age of 16, he read the “The Game” by Neil Strauss and “The Mystery Method” by Erik Von Markovik where he first learned about the pickup community. For the rest of his high school experience, Jeff tried implementing the tactics outlined by Neil and Mystery but he unfortunately learned the hard way that you can’t apply cold approach club game to high school along with the fact that scripted lines and fake stories were absolutely ridiculous to use.

He was told many times by family and other Asians in his family’s social circle that since Jeff was a short ugly shy Asian guy, he would never get a white girlfriend.

Undeterred, he decided to take a new natural route of learning game when he attended university, where he went out with his naturally talented friends every weekend to pickup women. For four years, he went out every weekend to practice with his natural friends while also testing different pickup tactics he had seen online from various pickup companies. Due to the amount of infield experiences and knowledge he gained, he was able to have short and long term relationships with multiple women.

At the age of 22, he had his first threesome with two white sorority presidents. His dream of having the experiences similar to the characters in American Pie finally became a reality. He reached a level where he surpassed his natural friends and had great ambitions of becoming a dating coach. After college, Jeff ‘s skill level with game kept getting better steadily and around this time, he got involved in a consensual polyamorous relationship with a very special lady and had at least one threesome with new women every month since he created a reliable method to get consistent MFF threesomes. To this day, Jeff is considered one of the rare polyamorous relationship and threesome experts in the world. After saving a year of money from his job, he decided to risk it all and move to California, in order to pursue his dreams of becoming a professional coach.

Since then, he’s worked with various well-known dating coach companies and has taught hundreds of students over the years all throughout the world.

In his twenties, his friends called him a “savage” with women. Now in his thirties, he realized being a gentleman is much more rewarding than being a “savage.” That it’s possible to treat women with dignity and compassion without getting placed in the “friend zone.” For this reason, Coach Jeff created Gallant Gentleman with Coach Seb.